Planning a wedding can be both tiring and overwhelming. As a bride, you have countless details to manage and high expectations to meet. It’s the day you’ve been dreaming of, and it has taken countless months and stressful meetings to make it the most perfect day. From makeup to jewelry, from dresses to photography, from venue to catering, you want everything to be unforgettable.
It’s natural to feel overwhelmed on the big day. However, as inevitable as it may be micro-managing every little detail of the wedding, it is important to realize that this day is only meant to celebrate your happiness. Being unable to enjoy the day you’ve worked so hard sounds unfair.
This is why we have created “A Brief Guide to a Calm Wedding Day.”
Let’s get straight into it.
Be Prepared
Clothes:
- Make sure your clothes are ironed and ready to go a day before the makeup appointment.
- Check if all the pieces are packed the night before, as well as once before leaving for your appointment.
- Wear the dress to check if it fits properly and alter it accordingly. You should be happy with the fitting of the dress at least a week before the wedding.
Jewellery:
- Check if the jewellery matches the outfit and the kind of look you’re going for. Make sure the necklace sits well with the neckline of your dress. Some brides realize toward the end that their necklace overlaps their necklines, causing panic and anxiety for themselves.
Choose earrings that will complement the hairdo you have selected for yourself. - Make sure all the pieces are ready to go before your bridal appointment.
- Check the earring stoppers to avoid last minute stress.
- Use numbing cream on your ears if your earrings are heavy.
- If you plan on wearing a nose piece on your wedding day, make sure you get a piercing multiple months before. Let it heal. Please avoid wearing the nose piece if the piercing is not healed or if gets bloody when changing from nose pin or ring to the heavier bridal nose piece.
Keep Essentials Like:
- Perfume
- Footwear
- Bridal clutch/bag
- Bracelets / bangles / rings
Put Yourself First
- Don’t starve yourself on the day of your wedding. Eat full meals to keep energy throughout the day.
- Stay hydrated. Always keep a bottle of water with you. Drink plenty of fluids and juices and remain hydrated. If the weather is warm, try staying indoors and in air-conditioned rooms.
- Prep your skin. Cleanse and moisturize your skin before your bridal booking. Use a hydrating sheet mask a few hours before leaving for your appointment.
- Remain stress free. Don’t take calls about event management or have it organized beforehand. Delegate duties as much as possible.
- Know what you want. Be sure of the look you desire, and don’t let other people influence your decisions. Do your research and stick to the look you choose for yourself. Trust your MUA to deliver what you’ve decided for yourself and avoid interrupting them while they do your makeup. Enjoy the experience.
Remain Up to Date
- Sort out payments beforehand so your wedding day remains stress-free and enjoyable.
- Be on time for your bookings. Allow enough time for any mishaps, traffic delays, or unseen occurrences that can cause you stress on your big day.
- Plan your look beforehand. Keep reference pictures for makeup and hair, and don’t change the look mid-makeup application.
- Assign duties to bridesmaids. Avoid micromanagement and focus on self-care and enjoying the day.
Communicate
- If delegating duties to your bridesmaids stresses you out, communicate clearly or write their duties down for them. Have them give you hourly updates but let them take care of the rest.
- Before getting your makeup done, talk to your makeup artist about the kind of look you want. Create a mood board for what you have in mind and show it to your MUA. Discuss your makeup and skin concerns beforehand. Then trust them to deliver the look you desire.
- Talk to your photographer beforehand. Discuss your preferences when it comes to your photography and videography. Create a mood board and share it with your photographer so you both can remain on the same page when it comes to your preferred aesthetics.
Conclusion
From ensuring your attire is perfectly prepared to prioritizing your own well-being, we’ve covered every detail to help you feel relaxed and confident on your wedding day. Remember to trust your instincts, communicate your preferences clearly, and delegate tasks to avoid any unnecessary stress.
By staying organized, focusing on self-care, and knowing exactly what you want, you can ensure a calm and joyous event.